The Blind Date

Yeah yeah yeah long time no write, but I have been a very busy woman. So busy that I am even surprised that I was even able to squeeze in a blind date. Those of you who know me may be a little surprised that I even went on a blind date, because I don't like blind dates. My first date actually was a Blind date and being younger and at BYU Idaho I thought oh my goodness could this be the one. No, no it really couldn't cause there was something wrong we my date. Let's just say he had a sweet spirit if you get what I mean.
My dating record has been about the same. I could probably, well easily tally up every single date or little set up I've ever been on. So when a friend of mine asked me if I was still single I said yes. She had just recently married almost a year ago and her husband knew of a single man who was I pharmacist tech (I think). My friend gave me his name indicating to me that I should check him out on facebook and I was just about to when my brother stopped me. I kinda obeyed his suggestion, I caught a glimpse of him and had my brother check him out. Well that didn't really work because my brother no longer knows what my type of guy is anymore. I really think he does, I've just confused him from my past interests.
So I kinda start to get a little excited, but I don't push it too much because I don't want to get too disappointed. I arrive at my friends house. The plan was to have dinner at her place and then play games, something low key which is what I like. I talk with her for a few minutes to catch up on stuff and then my date arrives. Well there was no physical attraction, nothing. He had beady eyes which kinda creeped me out later. I wasn't going to judge him all on appearance though, so the night began.
We talked some and then played Kinect, which was awesome and I highly recommend. My date however had no personality at all, it was like talking to a wall. There was really nothing there and half the night I just wished I'd stayed at home and watched a movie by myself except that there would have been that big what if question in my head. My what if question had been answered this guy was not for me so I really didn't feel bad when he asked me that my what my plans were for that weekend. I replied that I had work and church. I didn't think I would ever be grateful to use my busy crazy schedule as an exit out. Maybe next time will be better friends?

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